The other day a woman asked me for the secret to life attraction.

I didn’t understand the question.

Most ask me how to use the secret Law of Attraction to attract money or attract a partner. I’m not used to the question, “What is the secret to life attraction?”

As I thought about it, I realized the secret to attracting anything is the same: be clear about what you want and clear inside so you can attract it.

But what does that mean?

Being clear about what you want means to be so detailed and specific that you can tell it to another person and they could repeat it back to you, or maybe go get what you asked for. They would not be confused.

No matter what you ask for in life, the clearer you can articulate your request, the easier time you’ll have in attracting it. You’ll have a destination. You’ll have a target. It all begins there.

Of course, you can’t ask for a specific person or thing. You have to allow room for something better to come your way.

Being clear inside means you don’t have any counter-intentions stopping you from attracting what you want.

In other words, if you want to attract a new job but also feel you don’t have the skills or experience, or the economy isn’t right, then your internal belief could slow or even stop your progress.  You need to be in alignment with your goals. You need to be congruent. You need to be clear.

Being clear means you are consciously and unconsciously in alignment with your desire.

I don’t think you could name anything in life that doesn’t require the above two steps. Whether you want to attract money or health or work or a relationship, it all boils down to knowing what you want and being clear about deserving it. To me, that’s the secret to life attraction.

Obviously, there’s more to the story.

You still need to take action. When inspiration hits, or an opportunity appears, your job is to take action. When I was on FOX News & Friends November 8, the first thing I told the viewers was they had to to do something to attract and achieve results. It’s a major secret to success.

So now we’re up to three secrets:

1. Know exactly what you want

2. Be clear about accepting it

3. Take action to attract it.

Are there more secrets?

Of course.

When I was on Donny Deutsch’s TV show, The Big Idea, November 19, 2007, I explained the five step formula from my book The Attractor Factor:

So are those five steps the complete secret of life attraction?

Life can’t be distilled into one blog post.

This is why I have books, such as Attract Money Now, and audios,  such as The Secret to Attracting Money, and DVDs, such as Zero Limits: The Final chapter, and of course my Miracles Coaching program.

It’s all available for you to choose from and enjoy, so you can finally understand the secret of life attraction.

But you have to do something to make any of it work.

What will you do now?

Ao Akua,


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  1. December 1, 2009 at 9:58 am

    Dr. Joe,
    Your post has inspired me to work on this today. You said: “Being clear about what you want means to be so detailed and specific that you can tell it to another person and they could repeat it back to you, or maybe go get what you asked for. They would not be confused.”

  2. December 1, 2009 at 10:18 am

    Hi Joe,

    I am reading your book pdf version.
    I stumbled upon the book by Dr DeMartini around may of the past year since then I was lead from one book to the other. I read the secret, then I want found your book Attract Money now, the pdf free version.
    I’m applying myself in those principles.
    Working on it.
    Wanted to let you listen to something music I naturally play
    from the site if you want to listen.
    I think i have somthing i could work on to attract money to inspire people as well. maybe you can listen to it or some other will do if you lead them.
    thanks for everything and for your inspiration.
    if you were able to accomplish many things I can as well this is my belief.
    God Bless

  3. Mariya-Reply
    December 2, 2009 at 2:23 am

    Hello Mr vitale
    my name is maryam and i live in iran. i excuse because my grammer and writing english is not well. but i need help. i cant ATTRACT my dreams. i see the secret film and i read the key:the mising secret for attracting any thing you want; but when i think to every things that i want to gettingand i concentrateit, all happens goes to unlike it. but other things that not important and i think that for 5 second, i get it suddenly. i want to realize, but i can’t. please lead me.

  4. Ravin-Reply
    December 2, 2009 at 5:14 am


    Dr. joe, i read this post. But i could not understand some things. You said, if one is going to attract anything in their life then one has to remain in alignment with their desire by consciously and unconsciously.
    I know how we can become more aware by consciously.
    1. Get clear what you want
    2. Know what you don’t want
    3. Clear all negative beliefs
    4. Visualize the target
    5. Let it go

    But how can we become in alignment with our desire unconsciously??

    I am confused bit. help me, please.


    • Cynthia Cady-Reply
      December 3, 2009 at 3:15 pm

      The one thing I learned about getting in alignment is to still your mind and watch your thoughts. Then you can see what you think about something youre asking for still your thoughts replace them with new ones. Get still and ask what am I Im beginning to sound like Joe Vitale!!! But it works!! It has for me.I still have to work on those limiting beliefs But Im headed in the right direction!!!! BE HAPPY NOW!!!

      • Ravin-Reply
        December 3, 2009 at 7:57 pm

        thank you for response. But still we should wait for joe vitale’s answer.

        Cynthia, if we want to become prosperous in our life, then we have to focus on our work, belief and have to read lot of books. We need to go through various experiences. 🙂

        Thank you again, cynthia.

      • Susan Bonner-Reply
        December 14, 2009 at 10:56 pm

        It seems like my husband and I are on the track in achieving wealth and then all of a sudden a big setback comes and then we have to start all over!!!!!!!! how do we keep constant in achieving our wealth and not fall behind, Please help.


  5. December 2, 2009 at 9:27 am

    Dr. Joe, you are simply amazing! I’m always in awe of you. One day soon, I know I will be like you. And when I finally achieve my goals, I will meet with you. I promise.

  6. David-Reply
    December 11, 2009 at 6:30 pm

    Hi Joe,
    Did you see this movie? Are you in it? There’s not alot of info out there. can you help shed some light? It looks very “Secret” like?


    • December 13, 2009 at 11:15 am

      I’m not aware of this movie.

  7. Tt-Reply
    December 31, 2009 at 11:54 am

    Hi Joe, been reading your books for a while,and sitting here a few more hours to 2010, in my house in Abuja Nigeria, the electricity just went out, nothing abnormal about that, but a friend just gave me the Secret DVD and I am over the moon. By the way it is a beautiful African moonlite night in Abuja. This ia just to say “Happy New Year” from my beloved Africa..

  8. Prince-Reply
    January 1, 2010 at 1:06 pm

    You are so helpful.

  9. April 3, 2010 at 4:10 pm

    I have read and listened to most of your products. I will say that in the beginning I was confused about a lot of things. My experience in Practicing the Hermetic Arts- Laboratory Alchemy really started to make sense after reading and hearing what you have to say. For a while I did not know what teaching the Alchemy had for me until I learned all about the Subconscious Mind. Thanks to Joe Vitale now I understand more and am able to actually creat true Alchemical Medicines- and Alchemical relationships as well.
    Thats some food for thought. We are the Lead that is on a evolutionary Spiral path, ever ascending upward to becoming Gold.


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